Busy Bodies

As many of you know, I have had a few concerns about Joey for awhile. Although he is a smart, social, loving child, he also exhibits low frustration tolerance and below-age coordination and balance. On my recent trip to Indiana, my friend Barb was able to determine that he hadn’t fully integrated his primitive reflexes. I decided to seek further professional advice. I began looking for an OT that could assist me in problem solving a way to facilitate Joey developmentally so he didn’t have the challenges that weren’t necessary (and that may affect his self-esteem). I looked specifically for OTs that had special training in this area, but I had not been successful in my search. However, a few colleagues recommended "Busy Bodies." I reviewed the website and called to ask questions. The man who answered was helpful and so knowledgeable – I, then, realized that he was the founder (of this program that has been in existence since 1970). After my questions were answered, I realized that I had been guided right to where I needed to be.

Joey completed his evaluation today for about an hour and a half. Then, Dr. Strauss reviewed the results (and their meanings) with me for about 2 ½ to 3 hours. Wow! A new set of lenses to see my child has opened my eyes to some of the struggles Joey has been challenged with. As an OT, I am embarrassed for not noticing some of the challenges sooner, although I am also so careful not to look at my child too quickly with "OT eyes." However, my guilt is overridden with gratefulness for seeking this assistance before Joey has fallen too far behind to not catch up as easily. Specialists in this area are few and far between. And, so far, I have only had good experiences at Busy Bodies. More on this journey to come. . .

(Just one more thought – I feel validated today. I strive to not be the overreactive mom. I shared with the doctor how many times I have shared my concerns of Joey in confidence with others – only to hear, "He’s just a boy.")